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Hear, See, and Speak No Evil: The Dangers of A Fabulous Narcissist

Have you ever been Fucknotized? What is Fucknotized you ask? There are those that know exactly what I’m talking about. ‘IT’ wears many disguises. It’s the electric energy that shoots through your body as you helplessly lock onto their ‘fuck me’ eyes. It’s the penetrating ‘fuck me eyes’, perfectly paired with a naughty smirk, to entice the recipient. It comes slathered in slick, dressed as the star of the show. Perfect smiles and flirty gestures that are followed by handsy interactions. It's that fire. 

 I’m talking about that good shit. The dick/ pussy that makes you act a complete fool. The shit that blinds your judgment and makes you lose yourself. The vice that allows you to enter a realm, where you can free your mind and body, to its animalistic and primal tendencies. It presents as the slave master to physical pleasure; toes curled, as you bite the fuckin pillow. Whatever form it does come in, you're doomed! Strap yourself in because caution is about to be thrown to the wind and you're about to take a ride you’ll probably never forget, for the rest of your life.

The ones that possess the ability to make you drop panties, have a special power. These are also the ones you need to be the most self-aware with. I know it’s hard to raise the veil of the rose-colored glasses, especially in the moment, but I have to tell you, make sure to keep your feet firmly planted on the ground. The way your head can so easily float off the middle off your shoulders is crazy. Half the time you don't even know it floated away and to anyone watching the show, it’s a little scary. 

Consider this the caution sign on the road alerting you of the incoming risks. Firstly, stay self-aware. Are your behaviors different? Are you bending on things that you usually wouldn’t bend on? Are you compromising your code of morality by participating in the things that your source of lust is encouraging you to do? If so, it’s time to reel yourself in. You don’t have to be a prude, but there are dangerous things, that feel good, like Molly, Ecstasy, Coke, Opiates and other feel gooders that make you say’ fuck it’ once it’s kicked in. If your firecracker is creating a mood and getting you to go to the other level of the game by introducing these types of substances, you really need to re-evaluate the situation when you come out of the fog. Some players are masterful at their game, and you are not the first and def won’t be the last.

Secondly, don't ignore the red flags! It sounds so cliche but for real, you can’t allow yourself to be so fucknotized, that you start ignoring blatant red flags. Red flags come in many forms. Not linking up with you when they have promised, ignoring texts or calls and only giving you communication at certain times of the day. Not sharing the cost of dates or outings or always counting on you to be that one that is picking up the check are other huge red flags. I’m telling you; some people are pros and make a living off taking advantage of others because they know that they possess the fire. Another huge red flag is if they are glued to their devices or consistently have their shit hidden or locked, beware. This person might have 2 or 3 three of you fucknotized at the same time. The classic ‘User’ is usually a master at their game. The red flag list is too long to review all but if you feel like something isn't right, it probably isn’t.

Which brings me to the next bit of advice, always follow your gut. Don’t ignore the feelings and signs that you get in energy land. Intuition is for real. That is your inner compass. If you feel yucky, uneasy, or like something just isn’t right, take it seriously. That is the universe's/ higher powers way of trying to keep you on the right path. Those are gifts sent from energy land to be felt in the physical realm. It is your job to stay open and aware of cues you may get as you are actively playing with fire.

I absolutely know this is easier said than done. When you're in the heat of it, it’s 0 - 100 in less than 60 seconds. It feels soooo good when you are redlining it. The sex, the feelings, the carnal passion is intoxicating and addictive. The deeper you are in it, the harder it is to free yourself from the blinding toxicity. It is so important to stay aware of the shark tank that you are swimming in. Recovery after these rides can also be crazy and extremely painful, heads up. We can talk about that part next time. 

My goal for now is to remind you that you must try and stay in touch with yourself during the wild ride. You have to keep your feet firmly planted on the ground and your head far outside of your ass. By doing so, you can stay cognizant of the red flags and risky behaviors that sometimes-come hand in hand with the hottest and wildest ‘ride of your life’. Those lessons come hard, and you have to try your darndest to make sure the fallout and recovery is not catastrophic… If only it wasn't so fun and risky, but it is, so you have to be careful. Most of all remember to love yourself. You are precious and deserving of every beautiful thing that the universe has to offer. It’s up to you to stay in alignment and not change the trajectory of your life path by making detrimental decisions. You can do it. You are loved, beautiful, and resilient.

If you want to do some self-love activities that will help you pamper, love, and connect with yourself, check out our Menage A Moi Experience The Ménage A Moi Experience | The Bonded Box I also highly recommend that everyone read ‘Where Intimacy Begins: The Workbook’. This workbook will provide you a blueprint of how to establish healthy bonds and connection with yourself and in your relationships. Where Intimacy Begins: The Workbook | The Bonded Box . 

Take care and vibe high my friends,



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